Energetically and physically, the masculine is penetrative by nature. We are containers for tension. Our own, and the external tension. Fluidity runs through us. The more tension in our lives we lean into on a daily basis, the more expansive we become as men.
Do you lean into the tension of life? Do you invite it, look for it, and enjoy it? Or do you avoid it and run away to be comfortable? (like most men in this society are conditioned)
Men who live abundant lives, or who have achieved huge things, know the secret of following tension.
When you walk over to meet a woman, what leads? Your detached words, or your penetration?
She was standing outside the cafe, across the road from the supermarket I just came out of.
I love girls. She was a girl. Her energy was all girlie. She effected me. mmm girls.
With that, I walked across the road, supremely affected, while holding eye contact.
I arrived in front of her, she started to smile...then blush.
"Hi", i said.
She giggled, "hi"
"I saw you" i said.
She giggled more, "what's your name?" she asked
"Batman" I replied.
What do you bring first in your life?
Your words, or your penetration?
Your level of presence with a woman is directly related to how much you are willing to stay in your own body/emotions without attempting to change anything, as you look her deeply in the eye.
This, very simply, is how you penetrate her, and anyone else for that matter.
Feel your emotions. Stay with them. Surrender to them. Look her in the eye.
Will this mean every woman will love you? No. But remember, this is never about her.
This is about you, allowing yourself to be affected, and showing up with that vulnerability.
That is your sword. Wield that shit.
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