"Hey...I feel like we were always supposed to meet like this...right here, romantically, next to the cucumber stand..."
Sure she giggled and we flirted sarcastically.
Sure, we ended up roaming around the grocery store for about 35 minutes, pretending we were shopping as famous celebrities.(when i was Justin Bieber, I filled my basket with 24 packets of tampons, and a handheld mirror. Then we were kindly asked to leave)
And sure, we went for a coffee, and continued to laugh, flirt and people watch, and create random idiotic stories about strangers.
Sure. We did all those things, so yeah, naturally we both wanted to, and ended up kissing, in an empty park really organically.
And sure, it was right and equally nourishing, so we went to hers and explored the dynamic even deeper for the night.
You see, girls like guys. But not just any guys. Girls like the guys who like themselves and what they stand for in life.
Girls like the guys, who like themselves enough, to know that their value comes simply from feeling good about who they are, and who are enjoying their own company.
Girls like guys who share this value, simply because it feels good, and easy.
Girls like guys who aren't asking for anything, but still choose to share their own self-amusement, sexuality, and mischief in life, JUST to share. She can then choose to pursue.
Girls like guys who like themselves, and girls like guys who like other people.
It is easy to like others when you like yourself.
Girls also like guys who come from curiosity and observation, not from tactical 'game' techniques you use to try and get her to like you.
The quality of curiosity is the greatest compliment(besides an erection) that you can give a girl.
Realistically, telling a girl she is beautiful means nothing, and is more about you facing fears surrounding your own sexuality, than it is about her. It comes from looking at her and coming to a very uneducated 'cock-heavy' conclusion, then being unable to share anything with her other than the obvious. There is little value within that.
(but realise if you cannot state your desire for women verbally, you MUST start here to begin coming into alignment)
Noticing something about her and being curious about it, is actually seeing her, and being open to her, taking you even deeper into the abyss of who she is.
But then again, what do I know? Im just some unusually decisive dude with a business page and an opinion, talking a load of shit that just so happens to be completely true for me.
If it doesnt resonate with you, great...Go form your own experience.
If you have trouble getting there and you have the financial means, then drop me a mail, and I can get you there much fucking quicker.
Or don't, i'm easy. I strip part-time for Chinese business men, so I am financially fine.
In conclusion, Here is a picture of a woman laughing at a joke her salad just told her. Because life is utterly ridiculous.
We all just want to say words to one another and have a bit of a cuddle, but everyone is so afraid to go first.
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