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Your cum is your sun.
When you lose it, you lose energy.
When you hold it, you have more energy for yourself and your woman, or any women that are around you.
You can actually have sex, many orgasms and not ejaculate.
This practice has been cultivated for thousands for years and in many ways, most famously by Indian yogic tantra and Chinese Daoism. Karezza is also making an appearance. Even modern athletes like boxers have practiced “no sex.”
You can actually generate more energy by having sex without ejaculating. Sex is creation energy, not only for reproduction but for any creative activity, including connecting with women. You grow your sex energy and women can feel it. Most of the time I roll fully loaded.
When you ejaculate too often you can get more fearful rather than relaxed.
You have to sense for yourself what timing it is most beneficial. Notice how long it takes for your cum to get to its maximum volume and thickness. Clear and watery is not strong. It takes a lot of physical energy and nutrients to build-up the concentrated energy of your life creating force.
Women have a menstrual cycle—that is their major form of sexual depletion.
Men can create an ejaculation cycle to build energy. Doing it every day can dull your edge or whack your into a stupor.
The younger you are the more you can ejaculate without depleting yourself, relative to health and diet. If you are in your early 20’s just doing it every other day might be a challenge yet still be a big enough boost for your energy levels.
Guys may skip a few days or go 30 days or more. One day every week or two, or just on weekends are common cycles.
You can benefit a lot just by skipping a few days. I usually lost it after about 40 days when I tried to go as long as I could. I’ve done 100 days. My record is 4.5 months and then I finally got rid of some reoccurring testicle pain, probably as the result of sexual exhaustion over time.
When you cum by yourself you get very little in return. When you cum with a woman you are absorbing her feminine energy that helps restore you. When you have sex without cumming you build even more energy.
It is said that men receive sexual energy most from women when she is on top having as many orgasms as possible. Women may receive the most sexual energy from men through fellatio and receiving cum on the outside of their bodies especially their faces.
There is primal wisdom in the now debased “money shot.”
A Daoist art and science to sex energy cultivation is seen the way of the White Tigress, as it is known in the west. There are three books on it that explain how utilizing men’s cum is part of a full program of physical rejuvenation and spiritual cultivation, for women and for their male partners.
Your cum is one of the most valuable things for a woman. From a Daoist perspective, you are doing her a favor by giving it to her. A woman should respect the benefits to her and cost to you.
The comedian Richard Pryor said, “Women be walking around thinking, ‘ha ha, I got the pussy.” Hardly anyone knows the sexual value of men. Men squander their sun all the time in an addictive way when they could be relaxing more deeply while transforming themselves through methods like chi gong, yoga, meditation and exercise.
It may seem impossible to do but you can do it if you keep in mind the benefits. You can learn techniques to relax and control. You can learn to circulate sexual energy to different parts of your body to prevent “blue balls” or frustrating tension. There are techniques to circulate energy up your spine to the brain and upper chakras for spiritual development. The point of spiritual development is bliss. Sex and spirituality is a great match as a part of holistic health.
There is a different kind of high that lasts and accumulates when you practice “seminal retention.” You focus not on release to kill tension and feeling, but building good tension and intensifying sensation, learning to withstand intense sensation even outside of sex. This you can bring to every experience meeting women where you might feel you are getting so excited you start getting jumpy or talking too fast to ejaculate off the energy. Slow it down and relax through it by feeling deeply not stuffing fear to seem confident.
For me spirituality and relating have become more united with a focus on cultivating and exchanging energy. I feel greater affection even when just flirting.
Hold on to your sun.
“Keep on with the force, don’t stop.”
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