You did not arrive here to be "politically correct" or accommodating to bullshit in any degree. We were duped along the way.
Even the individuals preaching authenticity are anything but. They are SOCIALLY authentic. But that is just another veil of intelligently tied bullshit that becomes easily packaged and ingested.
The reality of how we walk around on this planet is anything but easily digestible. Especially when you start calling yourself on it.
The sooner you can accept this, and come to terms with the fear involved in really allowing yourself to move and live as you your internals dictate, the better. For you and for everyone else you come into contact with.
A man really needs to begin the process of allowing himself to be that. A man. Releasing his feminine posture which he so desperately grips to. He needs to be able to express that which he wants in his life, in order to nourished and fed, as a man. Without feeling 'bad' about it.
If a man is out there attempting give his love and come from the heart with women....it can only mean he has adopted a completely retarded way of being and lost his way. If you were truly in your body as a man, you would already know that this is backwards for you. This is not how you work. But we have a whole load of men out there poeticising this malfunction. Men run around like bashful puppy dogs declaring their love.
The WOMANS nature is love. Her entire role is to bring it first and to TEACH it to the man. But in a society where the majority of woman themselves are men, it becomes a clusterfuck of hashtags.
You see, man learns love via the woman. The woman can only gift him this elixer once he is penetrating her with his ability to be fully there with her, to the point of really opening her, as then he is ready to receive. You will not open that which you cannot recieve from her. Life is clever that way.
His consciousness and his internal feminines sensitivity is rewarded with an unconditional love, without any expectations. A blossoming. A freedom. A movement. You, as a man, experience love VIA her embodiment of it.
Your role as a man is to be consistently redirecting her back to that place inside of herself, that once touched upon, will start to change her entire life.(and yours)
Avoid any advice or coach or woman, that attempts to make a woman out of you, for their own lack of understanding in how they work.
When I talk of how I love and adore women...I love and adore what they have the ability to embody, as i feel how it completely nourishes and supports my own life as a man. I also realise how out of my own way I must be in order to fully receive. This is where the majority of the healing work takes place. In your inability to stay with her as she moves.
Loving women has nothing to do with losing possession over yourself in order to give it all to her. That, is fucking insane.
As a man....you must be a man...in order to be fed!
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