How To Be The Man Who INSTANTLY Excites Her – Creativity

Women want to actually have fun and enjoy the process of interacting with you. A man who stays so bland and safely within the confines of his lines structures and seriousness sucks all the spontanaeity, humour and charisma out of the moment. It becomes uncomfortable for her, and the furthest thing from fun.

Being verbally direct in the form of a compliment VS. Being verbally expressive in a sexually playful and creative way?

The latter…every-fucking-time!

Your unique, playful creativity brings immense value to her life, heart, spirit and vagina. It opens her wide open in an organic and natural way.

Don’t be the “your beautiful/cute” repetitive donkey.

Think about it for a second and put yourself in her shoes. Imagine having to deal with mass amounts of half assed, ‘not showing up fully’ type of men, consistently repeating the same uninspired drivel, in the hopes of you repaying him with your attraction, time and affection.

He has brought nothing to the table. If he really desires and has interest in me…i would expect at least some genuine creativity and enthusiasm on his part to open me up with his best self. Not some words which are tossed around for everyone. It tells me so much about how he interacts in the rest of his life.

Ok, im back to being a dude again. Being a woman just there SUCKED!

Be creative, its incredibly simple, charming, and endlessly enjoyable. Its a piece of you. Offer that to women. Lean into your edge!

Women want to actually have fun and enjoy the process of interacting with you. A man who stays so bland and safely within the confines of his lines structures and seriousness sucks all the spontanaeity, humour and charisma out of the moment. It becomes uncomfortable for her, and the furthest thing from fun.

“hey, I just saw you from across the road, you look really cute, i just had to come and meet you”. Followed by “Whats your name?”…then by “what do you do?”, so on and so fourth.

I know guys love examples of what I mean, so just for a relating purpose here are 2.(not to be used as lines)

Today I saw a gorgeous Italian girl standing outside a shop. I could have walked over and told her how beautiful she was, which may have been met by awkwardness or embarrassment on her part. It is me officializing the ‘pick-up’ is in progress, its happening right now, get ready girl. Instead, I chose the much more enjoyable option:

“Hey……you wanna help me steal the candy from that child over there?…we can share the big ice-cream together”

Or yesterday, a girl sitting on a bench. I walked over and sat down next to her:

“Hi……are you waiting for your fiance?”
Her: “haha what? no, why?”
Me: “Awesome! Im here to hit on you”

Understand that underneath the surface, there is a whole lot going on. My intentions are sexually direct regardless of what I say. I am walking over to meet her, because I am attracted to something about her, and If AFTER interacting for a few seconds or minutes, the attraction grows, then I start thinking about sleeping with her. This is all being communicated simply by the fact that I accept it and realise its why I am there. She knows this, and she appreciates that i have enough creativity to play with my words so we can really open up to each other and create chemistry.

Gentlemen….listen when i say this…WOMEN KNOW WHY YOU ARE TALKING TO THEM!!! You dont always have to tell them you find them attractive. Its so fucking dull and boring. Plus it puts a whole lot of unnecessary pressure on both of you, especially her.

Personally, I do both. One of the first processes on my live training programs is getting guys to verbalize their attraction for women, as it is essential to being at sexual ease and connecting to your male desire if you have been avoiding it in the past.

I find I usually only ‘open’ her with a comment on her beauty when I am feeling shaky, fragile, or nervous. Which means 99 percent of the time, I interact playfully and creatively as described above.

These disjointed feelings are not bad, and are a daily occurance for my introverted self to re-externalize myself out into the world after a nights sleep. Getting my energetic engine running again.

They are usually just the beginning of my day, or if I have been stuck infront of a laptop screen for a few hours working. That groggy feeling. The reason being, is that these emotions directly cut off the creative aspects of me. Which is why all that I can even muster up is a “hey…I just saw you, your beautiful, I had to meet you”

After that they dissolve, and i return to my default.

You can be far more sexually direct in a much more fun and exciting way with your presence/vibe and humour. Using direct explanatory statements with regards to what you think about her and why you are there forces her to agree or disagree to something which is not even happening, resulting in girls rejecting you out of pressure, when they were never even given the opportunity and time to see if they liked you. This is the ultimate numbers game. You may as well run after girls asking them to fuck you. I mean sure, eventually someone will, but that is not proof that it “works”. Its number!

This is where men get confused expressing themselves to women. They verbalize as if they were talking to a man or a formal business partner: “I like you. I have come to talk to you. Lets talk, then I will get your number. We will meet up. We will fuck.” – The woman walks away because of all the pressure feeling panic and weird, while the man walks away saying “fuck that bitch, im alpha, she just cant handle all my directness.”

No. This guy, is a bone head, and becoming far too prevelant because of the pick up community, teaching men how to be even worse with women and themselves.

Using your vibe, intent and creativity allows her to feel into you and the dynamic as deeply as she feels comfortable doing without any preconceived commitments, she can choose, without any verbal contracts being stated. This gives many more women the opportunity to realise they are attracted to you.

No negative pressure.

No big deal. This is fun.

Be playful. Be a rascal!

Stop blowing your own ass out and investing so much into a complete stranger.

Test the vibe and play FIRST! Then make your decision based on the dynamic.

If you would like to be brought through this in person and really learn how to have these organic and natural interactions with women, hit me up for my live in person training, currently in Barcelona, and other European cities. Email masculineintent@gmail.com to set up a skype call to discuss your options.

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Chris