Its time to reflect on my journey, for the benefit of men.
Its funny. It may be an odd title. But in all my searching, and trying, and seeking over the past 10 years of my life...i could of saved most of those years if someone came to me and handed me the REAL medicine.
The most powerful task I have EVER taken on in my adult male life, and the task that has proven most difficult, challenging, honest, healing, and the most nourishing to my existence and the existence of others...
Is the task of staying COMPLETELY present with a woman.
Pretty fucking simple eh? HELL NO!! Its anything but simple.
Its funny when guys come to me now. They ask me millions of questions. All of which only document how unable and distracted you are from presence as a man. I am repetitively guiding him, and indeed her, back to the phsysical body. Your body is your anchor to this life. When your body stops, you know longer exist on this plane/dimension. So shouldnt your primary objective at all times be to be IN your body consciously.
The majority of humans are totally disconnected from themselves and their own creative intelligence. Society is built for mind. People step out of themselves, and low n behold, the body is ignored and becomes sick.
If there is ONE thing i can recommend to every man in order to start to heal and gradually experience your own godliness on this big round ball of lovelyness, it is to simply be in a room with women, incredibly often. Get them to be there, and just BE THERE with her, and yourself. No doing anything.
The spotlight will shine on all your frustrations, disconnections, impatience, and childishness. It is quite simply the most powerful cleaning and internally nourishing act you can ever take on. Not only do you heal and get a deeper understanding of yourself...the byproduct is you begin to offer her a healing space also...which is followed by mountains of pleasure and vitality.
Your ability as a man to move her is more powerful than you could ever imagine.
As you begin to feel more, clean, and get internally more quiet, you can be more present with her. The woman in-front of you begins to LIGHT UP! She starts to wake up. She is reflecting you back always. When you do lose yourself in a moment...you also lose her.
Your naturally way of moving through life as a man, is that of penetration. Your presence PENETRATES that which you place it in. When you really come to know this on a physical felt sense level, you will know that you do not even need to touch her, in order to bring her into the most blissful and orgasmic experience of her entire life. Heck, you dont even need to be in the same country as her. But, that is for another day.
It has finally come to a point, where I walk around....fed. I walk around seeing a very clear reflection in the bodies of the women I come in contact with. Wether its a warning light, or a big sexy celebratory light.
Dont take the long road gentlemen. The beautiful women of this earth are here to push you back into your power, even if many of them have no clue. You go first.
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Founder & Head Coach.