I'm never asking for anything...
She literally has nothing to reject!
Instead, I am BEING in alignment with myself, which just so happens to be a sexual man. who likes to play with women, but I am sharing and exploring.
Im never asking for anything. Nature has that part handled for us.
We both decide, if it feels right, and if we want to move it forward. Luckily, I am aware enough at this stage to know when this is desired via feeling, and common social awareness.
I lead it forward in a fun, easy, explorative, sexy, equally serving manner. I am leading her into a better experience.
What does this stage of her 'being into it' look like? She is still there choosing to be in my space and interact. There is no doubt in my mind that we are becoming more sexually intimate.
I am creating, offering, and leading the space. She chooses to step into it, contribute and follow, or she chooses not to step into it.
When you are not asking for anything, people like to be around you, for long periods of time, exploring the dynamic without pressure.
All you gotta do to be attractive to a woman, is to be in her company, without being an idiot and blowing yourself out with all your weak beliefs of what you might or might not deserve.
Bring your curiosity and desire with you. Wear it. What ends up happening, is you INSPIRE HER to want more with you, because you 2 human beings of opposite sexual poles have been in each others company, honestly, and playfully for a specific amount of time, without signing any contracts or creating any outcomes. This makes it all very easy and attractive. It flows, rather than regimentally moving through different steps.
People are either open to me, or not open to me(at this specific time). That is pretty much it.
Why would I ask for something, If i don't even know what or who that woman is? To do so is pretty disrespectful to yourself. You want a person who is sexy, attractive, feminine, has a personality which you are into and can open up to. You'r not going to know all of that by seeing her physical form walk down the street.
Roll it back in. No need for so much dependance on an outcome straight off the bat.
I share, explore, state, and invite.
I am never asking for anything.
She has nothing to reject.
"hey can I have your pussy?", said Chris only 1 time ever.
Today the girl who was serving me my coffee was cute, bright, latin, and had an awesome tattoo...which I was curious about. We spoke, she giggled, we laughed, I asked her some normal questions about her self due to my curiosity, and we are going to continue that easiness over drinks next week.
This is not difficult. It is simple.
I hear this from my students who get to the end of my coaching packages EVERY week! This literally happened today, and it happened 2 days ago. "Fuck, this is actually so simple, i wish I had known how easy and normal this is".
It doesnt have to be 'difficult'. It is actually very fucking normal.
You have learned to make it difficult. You have learned to be impatient. You have learned the defected character traits with symbolises a 'man' in 21st century life.
You can unlearn them. It's much easier. It's much more fun, You know how to contact me...
Commit to excellence in your life from this point forward, and start your deep transformation NOW!...by checking out my wide range of different coaching and mentoring options HERE. Or maybe the ELITE GROUP may suit your situation better. See you on the inside!
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