Ok mister, grab a chair, and sit your ass down. It's time we have a very important conversation...
If you live a promiscuous lifestyle and sleep with many different partners at the same time, you MUST be safe! Within the dating sphere of advice that is catapulted into men's mouths, having safe sex never seems to be discussed, so that's what I am doing today.
I never leave the house without 3 condoms in my pocket. Even If I am just walking across the road to buy water...I have been caught out like that before.
I always talk about being sexual, and generating/living a sexual life, but never about the safety aspect. You MUST be safe. Anything other than that is ridiculous. I learned this the disgusting way. I was very stupid when it came to safe sex a few years ago, and ended up with Chlamydia, and also a bout of Gonorrhea(the flu for your penis) at one point, which was super fucking gross.
Luckily, these were both gotten rid of with a simple one time anti-biotic. If i continued the way I was, I could of easily caught something serious.
Im sharing this personal info to help remove the shameful stigma that surrounds STD's and sexual health. Im also sharing this so you don't go through the same experience. Understand that HIV is EVERYWHERE. I get tested once every 3 months or so, and they tell me that they confirm at least 2 HIV cases EVERY DAY, from normal people, who forgot to wear protection. Sure this isn't fun to hear, but its real right now. My purpose is in delivering this realness. Exercise caution always, unless you know the person well, and you both trust each others sexual health status.
The thing about most STD's, is that the person carrying it may not even know they are infected. I often hear guys justify the reason for not wearing protection with a specific girl: 'She's not a slut, she is super clean looking." I regret to inform you that this superficial assumption you have arrived to is not reliable, ever.
I used to hate wearing condoms, for many reasons, until I found these specific ones I'm holding in the picture. Now, I order in bulk of about 500 at a time. It works out pretty cheap.
In my opinion Durex are the worst designed condom on the planet. They break, all the time. Especially with prolonged penetration. (Plus it feels like you are wearing a rubber boot on your cock.)
This brand are called EXS, and I am pretty sure they are designed for homosexual men...but you would never have guessed by the packaging. (having girls giggling opening them with wide eyes serves the vibe even better)
They are SUPER thin, but strong, to obviously keep sensitivity, but not break when Darren and Graham are all up in each others butt-holes.
I have only ever had one break out of about 500. Durex, for me, is every 1 out of every 3, and I am by know means packing an overly large member.
(and no, I am not an affiliate for these condoms)
I kind of feel like im your dad having this conversation with you, but maybe it is necessary, if he was not around to have it with you. If this post stops even one guy from getting weird growths on his tally-whacker, im happy.
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