Show Up REAL…Or Go The Fuck Home!

That is simply fact! You may strike ‘lucky’ every now and again and manage to convince a drunk chick into banging you for a few minutes, but your overall level of happiness and internal power will be fleeting, and dependant on the validation of your externals.

This is a short and sweet post. It’s to the point. No need to sugar coat anything.

In my line of work, guys ask me practical questions all the time. Such as “what do I say to her?” or “how do I behave with her?”.

They begin to think in terms of verbally ‘direct’ and ‘indirect’.

In many of my articles and videos, I share lots of information and theory on this. Much of it is INCREDIBLY contradictory and pretty pointless, on purpose, to shake you up, and to encourage you to do/say/express whatever the fuck you want!

I want to confuse you to the point of saying “fuck all this shit, Im just going to do what I want”. Im not here to babysit your ass. Trust me, you do not want that in the long-run.

My response to men who ask me all these specific questions, is to forget about ‘thinking’ of what to say, and instead FEEL how she inspires you. The FEELING a woman instills in you, is the right thing to express. Bring that feeling with you on an internal physical level. If you bring anything other than your own realness to the table…you will never be happy, and she will never be wet!

That is simply fact! You may strike ‘lucky’ every now and again and manage to convince a drunk chick into banging you for a few minutes, but your overall level of happiness and internal power will be fleeting, and dependant on the validation of your externals.

Forget about right and wrong. They dont exist. You exist, now!

The feeling a woman triggers in you can be ANYTHING, as it is in direct relation to you, and that is perfectly perfect for you at that exact moment in time. It is real. Anything other than realness is a cop-out and an avoidance.

An example, today I didnt just SEE an incredibly feminine and free flowing girl walking infront of me…I FELT her. She did something to my body. So instead of ignoring that overtly intense feeling and trying to translate it to something analytical(in order to get a specific response), I sat in the feeling, and was so appreciative of how amazing it was, I felt it of upmost importance to go and communicate.

I walked up along side her…and very calmly said “Hi…you just did something to me…”.

An awesomely sizzling interaction was inspired from this.

Was I direct or indirect? Who the fuck cares…I was something even more powerful…I was in alignment with myself!

How she responds does not fucking matter. This is about me, being in alignment with me. It just so happens, that the feminine DRIP off this way of showing up within yourself.

You are SO fucking powerful, you have no idea! Maybe start to allow yourself to listen to and feel what women do to you. Thinking is the reason you are reading this right now, and not inside a gorgeous woman.

I encourage you to begin to look inwards with any style of meditation that ensures you do not have headphones on(another way of avoiding). Allow whatever emotions and sensations come up within you, and breathe into them without trying to control or resist them.

This is where your power starts…and it is only the tip of the iceberg…

Chris B

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