(This beautiful picture of Trump goes perfectly with the subject matter of this article)
You know what makes you repulsive to women? You know what allows you to fuck some drunk girls, but never actually allow them to connect with you and be in your life everyday?
Referring to an interaction with members of the opposite sex as 'infield'.
You are not in a field. #mormongame
Stop being so weird about all of this.
Don't tell yourself you have 'approach anxiety'. You are simply nervous about meeting new people, and you maybe don't feel good enough about who you are right now. Welcome to at least 95 percent of other people.
Coming from that realisation, is much easier to correct in a healthy way. This is not a game. You are not a game. She is not a statistic or a 'target'. She is a human woman, with thoughts, feelings, likes, dislikes, insecurities, and in many cases a beautifully awesome personality who can actually assist you in growing and becoming a better man.
You don't have anxiety. You have incorrectly labeled excitement. Don't believe the hype.
You like girls. You want to talk to them. You want to kiss them. You want to cuddle them naked and have girlfriends etc. Thats awesome. Nothing wrong with that.
Women like men. They want to talk to good/fun/exciting/decisive/aware men. They want to be held by you and be your girlfriend. Thats awesome. Nothing wrong with that.
Start relating in a healthy manner, and women will ENJOY being around you much more, and you will enjoy being around women, which only results in you being more attractive.
They feel all the same things you do. Yes, even the stunning swimsuit model, well, actually, she is a bit different. She feels even MORE insecure than you do, but her job is to hide that.
They feel anxiety, shyness. They feel unworthy.
I know right...how crazy. Humans feel what other humans feel, and like to be with other humans.
Stop separating yourself from women and making them the enemy to be conquered and 'gamed'. It's totally ok if you wanna go suck some titties. You dont need some dude with a few 'infield' videos under his belt to tell you deceptive ways to go about it.
Titties are fun. You dont have to come up with a secret slang name for it.... "STP" - Sucking Titty Phase.
Many women like having their titties sucked. But that crass example is for another time.
The point is... stop behaving in a way that states women don't want what you want. Stop assuming women don't want all the experiences sexually, emotionally, physically that you want. The secret is, they do!
They want you to talk to them. They want you to stop what you are doing because you saw her and felt so attracted that you had to go over and interrupt her to talk with her.
They want you to know how to do it in a way that is fucking normal, real, and pressure-free..
They want you to understand empathy.
They want you to understand that they need a little time to be around you so they can learn to like you and feel comfortable with you, without you demanding something straight away.
They want you to know that they could be sexually attracted to you, and want to rip your clothes off. All you must do is learn how to be there, and give them that space to feel out who you are being, and whether or not they want that.
They want you to understand all of this, so they can meet you, again, and again, and again. And have awesome sex with you again and again and again. And fall in love again and again and again.
Stop learning how to be a douchebag. Stop giving other BIGGER douchebags your money to teach you 'game'.
Find a guy who is ACTUALLY charmingly comfortable around women. A man who you can SEE women love being around, and ask him...(A man who is not affected, and finds the humour in a girl not wanting to speak with him.)"Hey dude, can you help me talk to girls. I like them, but i dont really know what I should do."
There is no shame in that.
He will not refer to 'daygame', 'nightgame', or 'behind a bush teasing game'.
If you cannot find anyone, Il take your money,il give you my undivided time, and Il show you whats up, effortlessly, combined with some commitment to face uncomfortability on your part.
If some guy has phrases such as 'master seducer' in his vocabulary...he doesnt do life good. He also doesn't do himself good. He's bad at himself. He is an utter parody of his identity and you should probably run away, maybe tell your mom.
Stop being weird. Girls wanna talk to you. Stop assuming they dont.
Commit to excellence in your life from this point forward, and start your deep transformation NOW!...by checking out my wide range of different coaching and mentoring options HERE. Or maybe the ELITE GROUP may suit your situation better. See you on the inside!
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